I feel like a fricken unicorn with rainbows shooting out of its ass because I've finally found some inner peace. I feel like a HUGE weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I pretty much got rid of an extremely toxic relationship and I feel pretty damn good about it. So there it is, my Friday Favorite. Sure it's rough since we've been friends for so long, but it had to happen. Cut the cord to venture onward and upward to a place that is full of happiness. I would go into what happened to make my final decision, but really all it took was for them to do/say one more stupid thing to make me wave up my hands and say "EFF THAT! DONE! Have fun being miserable and blaming everyone/everything but yourself for your problems!" Like seriously...
It was one of those where it sucks the life out of you and now I'm like...
This person ALWAYS looked to the negative, it was just exhausting. Does anyone else have someone in their life like that? It really takes a toll on you. People just need to learn that they are in charge of their own happiness. Maybe I've kept this person in my life hoping that I could change their outlook on their own life, but one can only do so much.
I'm REALLY looking forward to this weekend. My training for my 15k in October has commenced and I'm headed toward new fitness goals! There's nothing better than the feeling of progress both mentally and physically.
Cheers and TGIF!!!!
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I'm REALLY looking forward to this weekend. My training for my 15k in October has commenced and I'm headed toward new fitness goals! There's nothing better than the feeling of progress both mentally and physically.
Cheers and TGIF!!!!
I have cut ties with a few people that I was friends with for a long time because you are right, toxic relationships take so much out of you! I literally could't take it anymore.
ReplyDeleteHope you have a great, free weekend!
OH girl....been there....done that. Just happened recently, too. Life was just drama with this person and it was constantly the worst thing ever. Her job, her friends, the weather, her signifigant other...it was just too much. I found myself becoming drained, daily. There's only so much positive spin I can put on someone else's life, ya know?!!?
ReplyDeleteGlad you feel better. You'll realize how much easier life is when you're not being dragged down. It is clear we are both better off, right?!
Have a fAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAbulous weekend, and good luck with your training!
My theory is if you don't bring something good and positive into my life then get the fuck out! Seriously this may sound harsh but negative, toxic people will never make your life better!!! I was married to one, I know lol
ReplyDeleteHow amazing that you're doing a 15K!! I totally understand how you feel about having the weight of not having toxic people in your life off your shoulders - its so refreshing! Hope you have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteI'm all about getting rid of toxic things and people. I mean I don't want to sound harsh but sometimes you need a break or a legit cord cutting from these types, good for you. Good luck with your training! woot woot!
ReplyDeleteGirl that is fabulous news! Getting out from underneath something toxic like that is really hard and I applaud you for doing it! Sending you lots of love!
ReplyDeleteDitching toxic people out of your life always is such a relief.
ReplyDeleteWell cheers to you girl! Sounds like you definitely made a smart decision, toxic is no good! Enjoy your weekend :)
ReplyDeleteabsolutely hells yes to getting rid of a horrible relationship - and can i just say i almost spat out my water 'unicorn with rainbows shooting out of its ass' lol
ReplyDeleteOh my yes! I totally had a best friend like this and I had to cut her out when I started dating a new guy and did not mention one word of positive to me. It was all what if he's a jerk, be careful, guys suck...blah blah blah. Just be happy damn it!
ReplyDeleteThings like that are hard but in the long run you're going to benefit. Hope you have a fabulous weekend chica. XO
ReplyDeleteGood for you for cutting the toxic friend out! I had to do that a few years ago- it was really hard because she was my best friend since our freshman year in college, but I felt such relief and peace after I did it! Enjoy your weekend!
ReplyDeleteOk, we are so with you on this! It's always hard but it's 100% easier to be positive when there aren't people bringing you down
ReplyDeletexx 365hangers
Sometimes you just have to let them go. It takes up way to much of your energy to try and get them to think more positively. It's tough but good riddance.
ReplyDeleteamen to getting rid of toxic relationships. i'm in the same boat and definitely understood everything you wrote about it.
ReplyDeleteSoooo true! I always like saying "you are your environment" and if it's toxic it seeps into your own happiness. Good for you for cleaning your life of toxicity!
ReplyDeleteGetting rid of a toxic friend is a huge weight off. It takes balls and strength to do it. I'm happy for you!
ReplyDeleteI haven't had to get rid of a friend in a long time, but I know how it feels and I'm so happy you were able to. Can't wait to hear more about your 15K training!!
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ReplyDeleteGirl, sometimes the hardest part is getting rid of it but so worth it...kinda like ripping off a band aid. So happy that you were able to get out of this toxic relationship!
ReplyDeleteGlad you're feeling better- the negative people aren't worth any energy!
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